It Starts Today…

Unconditional Love Of Self on Miraculous Endeavors New Age BlogToday I give up trying to fix my family of origin so that I can get on with having a happy life.

I’ve seen it as my duty, my cause, my need, ect., when perhaps it really has been a place for me to hold on to my dysfunctional past.

My experience tells today that it doesn’t matter whether I’m doing everything right or everything wrong – I’ll always come up short when trying to please everyone.

I’ve made many mistakes and I’m the first one to admit them. No one has been tougher on me, than me.

Today I can feel my sense of inadequacy and move through it. I can live my life for me, free of guilt, shame and remorse.

I’ve found the happiness I have unknowingly been in search for my whole life, whether someone shares in that or not is on them.

I’m taking my life back and its starts today!

Namaste,

Karin

Living The Dream..

Life's Lesson... Even above dark clouds and rain, there is blue skies and sunshine!

I can change my life situation. I have a right to succeed and feel good about myself. Change is one of the most difficult of life’s challenges.  Its perfectly alright for me to want my life to feel comfortable to me as, well as manageable.

I don’t know what the future may hold in store for me at any given time, but I know that it will all be turned to good. When I follow my heart, I align myself with my greater good, things have a way of falling into place.

Today I entertain the possibility that my life can work out as I always dreamed it to. I will participate in my inner dreams by tasting it, seeing it, and believing in it.

Seeing is believing and believing is seeing.

Namaste,

Karin

I Can… Reflections Of A Mother

My Family ♥

I gave you life, but cannot live it for you.

I can teach you things, but I cannot make you learn.

I can give you directions, but I cannot be there to lead you.

I can allow you freedom, but I cannot account for it.

I can take you to church, but I cannot make you believe

I can teach you right from wrong, but I cannot always decide for you.

I can buy you beautiful clothes, but I cannot make you beautiful inside.

I can offer you advice, but I cannot accept it for you.

I can give you love, but I cannot force it upon you.

I can teach you to share, but I cannot make you unselfish.

I can teach you respect, but I cannot force you to show honor.

I can advise you about friends, but cannot choose them for you.

I can advise you about sex, but I cannot keep you pure.

I can tell you the facts of life, but I can’t build your reputation.

I can tell you about drinking, but I can’t say “no” for you.

I can warn you about drugs, but I can’t prevent you form using them.

I can tell you about lofty goals, but I can’t achieve them for you.

I can teach you about kindness, but I can’t force you to be gracious.

I can show you forgiveness, but I can’t make you forgive.

I can warn you about sins, but I cannot make you moral.

I can love you as a child, but I cannot place you in God’s family.

I can teach you to live, but I cannot give you eternal life.

To my all beautiful Children.. I love you!

Mom aka Karin ♥

 

Examine Your Heart..

Examine Your Heart and Heal on Miraculous Endeavors New Age BlogSome say that the failure to offer or receive forgiveness lies at the heart of the most serious emotional and spiritual disorders that we experience.

While this may be unprovable assertion, it is clear that unforgiveness provides fertile soil for a remarkably diverse ‘crop of weeds’. It can hide itself behind many different masks!

People sometimes say in an angry tone or action that they have forgiven or that it doesn’t matter to them, the past offenses, but their obvious bitterness betrays them.

Unforgiveness can lodge in your heart and hide from you.

The following questions will help you examine your heart to see if unforgiveness is poisoning your soul.

1. Do you still secretly hope someone that someone will get what he/she deserves?

2. Are you still talking negatively about this person to others?

3. Do you indulge in fantasies of revenge – Even mild ones?

4. Do you spend time mulling over what he/she did to you?

5. How do you feel when something good happens to him/her?

6. Have you quit blaming this person for how your life turned out?

7. Do you find it difficult to be open and trusting with people?

8. Are you frequently angry, depressed, or bitter?

9. Do you find it difficult or impossible to Thank God for your offender?

Let God Examine your heart… Expose it and Heal

Namaste,

Karin

An Act Of Love…Reflections Of A Mother

Reflections Of A Mother

Hasn’t there been enough pain and hurt?

The mother-daughter bond is I’m sure the strongest of all human bonds.

Although betrayal stands between us… I love you.

I think of you daily and you are in my thoughts and in my prayers.

How many times must I try? Seven? No Seven times Seventy!!

Pain and anger… she just holds on. She says she is not angry and can live just fine without her Mother….

Forgiveness is not an event of immediacy. It’s not a bolt of lighting that brightens the soul and burns the pain to ashes. Forgiveness is a process.

When it is all said and done, the final process is an act of love.

Namaste,

Karin

Staying In The Moments..

One with the Moments

Today I will be quiet and experience each moment as it comes. I will accept this day as a teacher, that it has within it many of the deepest components of mystery, love and God.

I will not just register but I will adjust to the experiences of the moments and I will experience the soul. The experience of soul is the acceptance of the moment in which both the question and the answer dissolve and become irrelevant.

I will allow myself to co-exist with the energy that surrounds me, to become one with the moment and ALL that is contained within it.

Namaste,

Karin ♥

I Love You Mom

Rob's Mom on Miraculous EndeavorsLate Sunday, May 5, my mom passed away (Rob’s).  She was a feisty, vivacious, kick-ass woman with a heart as wide as the ocean and a soul as vast the universe.  I will not suffer the slings and arrows of great human sorrow on her passing.  Her life was tormentous to say the least; therefore, I have no doubt she has achieved Nirvana.

I will rejoice in her life.  I will rejoice in the life she breathed in me!  I will rejoice in wise words through history on death:

Death – the last sleep?  No, it is the final awakening.

~ Walter Scott ~

 Death is one of two things…

Either it is annihilation, and the dead have no consciousness of anything; or, as we are told, it is really a change:  a migration of the soul from one place to another.

~ Socrates ~

 Death is nothing else but going home to God, the bond of love will be unbroken for all eternity.

~ Mother Teresa ~

 The fear of death follows from the fear of life.  A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.

~ Mark Twain ~

 The only thing that burns in hell is the part of you that won’t let go of your life:  your memories, your attachments.  They burn them all away, but they’re not punishing you, they’re freeing your soul.  If you’re frightened of dying and you’re holding on, you’ll see devils tearing your life away.  If you’ve made your peace, then the devils are really angels freeing you from the earth.

~ Meister Eckhart ~

 Some people are so afraid to die that they never begin to live.

~ Henry Van Dyke ~

 Only those who have dared to let go can dare to re-enter.

~ Meister Eckhart ~

 When the heart weeps for what it has lost, the soul laughs for what it has found.

~ Sufi aphorism ~

 Of course you don’t die. 

Nobody dies.
Death doesn’t exist.
You only reach a new level of vision, a new realm of consciousness, a new unknown world.

~ Henry Miller ~

 A man’s ethical behavior should be based effectually on sympathy, education, and social ties - no religious basis is necessary.  Man would indeed be in a poor way if he had to be restrained by fear of punishment and hope of reward after death.

~ Albert Einstein ~

 To fear death is nothing other than to think oneself wise when one is not.  For it is to think one knows what one does not know.  No one knows whether death may not even turn out to be the greatest blessings of human beings.  And yet people fear it as if they knew for certain it is the greatest evil.

~ Socrates ~

 We are ignorant of the Beyond because this ignorance is the condition of our own life.  Just as ice cannot know fire except by melting and vanishing.

~ Jules Renard ~

 The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone.

~ Harriet Beecher Stowe ~

 If man hasn’t discovered something that he will die for, he isn’t fit to live.

~ Martin Luther King ~

 I believe there are two sides to the phenomenon known as death, this side where we live, and the other side where we shall continue to live.  Eternity does not start with death.  We are in eternity now.

~ Norman Vincent Peale ~

 Ancient Egyptians believed that upon death they would be asked two questions and their answers would determine whether they could continue their journey in the afterlife.

The first question was, “Did you bring joy?”
The second was, “Did you find joy?”

~ Leo Buscaglia ~

 Normally we do not like to think about death. We would rather think about life.   Why reflect on death?  When you start preparing for death you soon realize that you must look into your life now… and come to face the truth of your self.  Death is like a mirror in which the true meaning of life is reflected.

~ Sogyal Rinpoche ~

 As a well spent day brings happy sleep, so life well used brings happy death.

~ Leonardo DaVinci ~

  He who has gone, so we but cherish his memory, abides with us, more potent, nay, more present than the living man.

~ Antoine de Saint-Exupéry ~

 Die happily and look forward to taking up a new and better form.  Like the sun, only when you set in the west can you rise in the east.

~ Jelaluddin Rumi ~

 The Native American View On Life & Death

“You live on earth only for a few short years which you call an incarnation, and then you leave your body as an outworn dress and go for refreshment to your true home in the spirit.”

~ White Eagle ~

“So live your life that the fear of death can never enter your heart. Trouble no one about their religion; respect others in their view, and demand that they respect yours. Love your life, perfect your life, beautify all things in your life. Seek to make your life long and its purpose in the service of your people. Prepare a noble death song for the day when you go over the great divide. Always give a word or a sign of salute when meeting or passing a friend, even a stranger, when in a lonely place. Show respect to all people and grovel to none. When you arise in the morning give thanks for the food and for the joy of living. If you see no reason for giving thanks, the fault lies only in yourself. Abuse no one and no thing, for abuse turns the wise ones to fools and robs the spirit of its vision. When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. 

Sing your death song and die like a hero going home”

~ Chief Tecumseh (Crouching Tiger) Shawnee Nation 1768-1813 ~

 Buddha’s View On Life & Death

“Everything is changeable, everything appears and disappears; there is no blissful peace until one passes beyond the agony of life and death.”

“Even death is not to be feared by one who has lived wisely.”

“On life’s journey faith is nourishment, virtuous deeds are a shelter, wisdom is the light by day and right mindfulness is the protection by night. If a man lives a pure life, nothing can destroy him.”

“The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, not to worry about the future, or not to anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly.”

My God Story…

The Love Of Self on Miraculous Endeavors New Age BlogGetting to know myself better is a powerful, emotional and rewarding adventure in getting to know God better.. It’s my personal and intimate God Story.

Today I allow the deeper pulse of life and love to flow through me. Those I love most help me to see me. They pull my on fears and passions, my dreams and desires, bring them forth from unconsciousness to consciousness.

My love for those I care about motivates me toward a kind of self-honesty that I might otherwise avoid. Because I love them and feel loved by them, I am willing to look at myself.

With self honesty, self forgiveness, and self-love I can and will transform from the inside out to reach my highest good. It doesn’t happen once and for all, self continues to evolve.

I will get out of my own way… Life is Gods Novel.. Today I will let Him write it!

Namaste,

Karin ♥